What They Didn't Tell Us...

Have you ever heard of discourse analysis...well its a subject we have to take as a student...
Its a subject where they teach u that what ever we say can have another meaning...its something like double meaning where what u say have 2 different meanings whether u meant it or not... discourse analysis is when u say something but something else is implied...

I have often wondered what would be the use of that particular subject as i wont be in the teaching field...

And somehow, in this last few days...I have gotten my answer....its like an epiphany...a revelation...

Since this is a season for marriage as it is the school holidays...i learnt the use of discourse analysis when i tried to understand what is love...

When people are in love everything seems so beatifullllllllllllll...full of birds chirping...butterflies fluttering...flowers blossoming here and there...the skies are blue...the rainbows are nice... pendek kata...everything is just heavenly...

When u ask what is love...people would say that love is kind...love is happiness...love is having somebody there for u...love is what keeps u going.... (here comes the discourse analysis...........................)

BUT WHAT THEY DIDN'T TELL U IS THAT...

Love is not just that...its more than that...there's a lot of things that they didnt tell u...they just tell whats nice...
When they say that

Love is kind...another implied meaning is that....love is also cruel

Love is happiness...another implied meaning is that love is also sadness....

Love is having somebody there for u...would mean that u would have to be alone since he/she is not there for u....

and

Love is what keeps u going...yeah right...love is what also stops u from moving on...

Why didn't anyone tell us of all this???

U feel that u are dispirited if he/she is not around...
The terrible feeling of missing someone when he/she is not there...
The pain of anticipation and waiting...
The sadness when u know that he/she is sad and u cant do anything...
The helpless and hopeless feeling that u have when u cant be there...
The anxiousness...resahnye...tak senang duduk when u feel that something is a miss....

They didnt tell u all that...why....
Love is not all flowers and rainbows...
Its also not all colourful and beautiful...

Its ... just not what it seems...